Hello and welcome to my corner of the internet. My repository of everything I have researched and experienced in order to fight Fibromyalgia – chronic pain, chronic fatigue and insomnia.

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I blend research, anecdotal evidence and personal experience in order to help you fight chronic pain/chronic fatigue/insomnia and the many disorders that cause these.

Are you wondering if pregnancy will be more difficult with Fibromyalgia? If you’ll experience a flare up post partum? How to nurse despite the pain? I write about this and more in Pregnancy and Fibromyalgia book. There’s also an entire Pregnancy Resources page for you.

Are you looking to fight Fibromyalgia? Maybe learn how I went from miserable to thriving in several years (spending a lot of time and energy researching and trying things out)? It’s all in my Melissa vs Fibromyalgia: My Journey Fighting Chronic Pain, Chronic Fatigue and Insomnia book. There’s also an entire resources page here with a heap of blog posts and printables I’ve written.

Are you wondering What it’s Really Like to Live with Fibromyalgia? Or What Works for Me: 9 Things to Fight Fibromyalgia? 

I’m a mama who’s been fighting Fibromyalgia for more than a decade. After struggling through the first half of my twenties exhausted and miserably sore without any doctor interested in helping me, I decided to begin fighting for myself. I moved to a warmer climate with my parents and brothers and reduced my work hours from full time to 27.5 hours per week. That’s when life began to slowly get better.


Find over 180 blog posts documenting my research and experience here.

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My products

Melissa vs Fibromyalgia products

I have written two books: Pregnancy and Fibromyalgia and Melissa vs Fibromyalgia: My Journey Fighting Chronic Pain, Chronic Fatigue and Insomnia both are available on Amazon.

A full eCourse: Pregnancy and Fibromyalgia eCourse.

Two micro courses Pregnancy and Fibromyalgia: Arm Yourself with Knowledge and You vs Fibromyalgia: Arm Yourself with Knowledge. These are free courses to get you started on your journey to fight Fibromyalgia (or give you more knowledge to kick that journey up a notch).

I wrote these for a few reasons, the first is that I felt a clear mission to help other people not spend as long as I did miserable and unsure what to do to help themselves. The second is that I really enjoy researching and writing. The third is that there was such an information gap, it had to be done.

Where Else do I Write?

The Mighty – here I have written several articles about pregnancy and Fibromyalgia.

I write about what I am reading (I am an avid reader) on The Fancy Nerds with my brother.


My Design

Luke T. Parkes formatted and edited my books and courses, created the covers for the books and many of the images on my blog. If you would like to chat to him about his work, use our Contact Us page to drop him a query.

Affiliate Links

We are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and affiliated sites.

I will only provide links to things I support myself.


PS: I am obviously not a health professional, I only know what works for me. I share my journey so that people would know the things they can try, in discussion with their medical team. We are a long way from the world in which I received my diagnosis, it was a hostile world where no one I knew believed in fibro/CFS and there was little information. I always expect that you will do your own research and will chat with your own team of medical professionals.

All content on this site is mine, unless cited otherwise. Copyright © 2018 Melissa Reynolds. All Rights Reserved.

5 thoughts on “About

  1. Hi Melissa! I just saw that you are following my ‘lovingmylumbar’ blog – thank you! This was a blog I started while I was going through my yoga teacher training (finishing up in time before my bub came into the world 2 years ago!). Since you signed up to this blog, I thought you might be interested in my my most recent blog https://nikkiveliz.wordpress.com/. I’m keeping my lovingmylumbar as a reminder to myself about my time going through an amazing part of my life 🙂

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    • Thanks Nikki! All signed up to the new one. I love that you are a yoga/meditation teacher and you aren’t extraordinarily bendy (lovely way to put it lol) as I would like to train as a yoga teacher one day! 🙂


      • Hi Melissa – are you in NZ? I think I remember reading that you were….Juliet Forch (NZ yoga teacher) is the reason I started yoga teacher training! She said we needed more inflexible teachers so if and when you would like to train, go check her out 🙂

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